Category: Personal-growth
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Just When I Got Used to My 50s, Along Comes 60: Reflections on Active Aging and Letting Go
A blogger in my mid-50s. Enjoying learning more than I did at school. Seeing old experiences—and some relationships—with fresh eyes. Younger me probably didn’t see this coming. Neither did I. 😉 Growing older has given me plenty to reflect on,…
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The Hidden Why: How Insecurity Shapes Our Everyday Habits
Is your lifestyle a sanctuary or a performance? From the high-pressure streets of Shanghai and Hong Kong to the clarity of a purposeful “Active Aging” journey, I’m exploring how insecurity acts as the hidden architect of our habits. Whether it’s…
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The Illusion of Control: Finding Peace in an Unpredictable World
Is control just an illusion? From career pivots and divorce to studying Ray Dalio’s Market Principles, explore how to navigate an era of ‘layered uncertainty’ by embracing a fluid mindset and learning to swim with the macro tides of change.”
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The Case for Confrontation: Why the Hard Path is the Secret to Long-Term Peace
Avoidance doesn’t eliminate a problem; it reshapes it into a heavier burden. Whether in work, travel, or love, sweeping truths under the carpet only creates obstacles for your future self. I’ve learned that a messy truth is always lighter to…
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Finding My Chinese Identity: A 25-Year Journey from Singapore to Bangkok
Celebrating CNY early! Reflecting on 20 years of “atypical” celebrations, the Bay (Horse) name, and rediscovering heritage at the SCCC after life in Bang
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Who Am I Now? How to Find Yourself After Major Life Transitions
Who are you when your roles as spouse, parent, or professional change? Stop performing and start reclaiming. From relocating to Bangkok to solo travel in Mongolia, learn how to conduct a life audit, rewrite your internal narrative, and rediscover your…